
Last week we celebrated the Graduation of our youngest son, Brendan, from Belmore School. It was a wonderful night, but nearly overwhelming in emotion. It was another major bookmark, in a ‘book’ with many chapters.
Brendan was born back in early 1991, as an extremely premature baby, weighing just 618 gms. He has malnourished, incompletely formed. His early weeks after birth were traumatic (ventilation; severe infections). Within six weeks, scans revealed that he had suffered massive neurological damage either before / during/ or soon after birth.
The prognosis for Brendan was diabolical. Spastic quadriplegia, swallow problems, sight, communication difficulties.
All this came to pass. Huge abdominal problems; on home on oxygen, no verbal skills, cortical blindness; fed only through a stomach tube; no motor functions. But the prognosis – accurate as it turned out to be – could never capture the heart of Brendan.
As a under nourished baby on oxygen, the first word he tried to mouth was in church – “Amen” at the end of prayers. As the years have gone by his suffering has been great. His care has been a daily drain on the family.
BUT – Brendan loves the Lord and everywhere he goes people notice this love pouring out of him.
In church, he just about jumps out of his wheelchair when the Gospel is spoken – whether forgiveness of sins, the return of the Lord Jesus, resurrection and the New Heaven and New Earth.
We look forward to the day when he is complete in the Lord’s presence. In the meantime, our great God continues to use this young man in remarkable ways.